We’ll get more into the specifics of how this pertains to mirrors in the next section. That being said, why would men enjoy using mirrors during sex? Well, there are a few reasons. Ladies, if you’re wondering about this, go back to our core principle – Communicate, communicate, communicate. Guys, if none of the following things are true of you, that’s cool. But just because something is true of most/a lot of men doesn’t mean it’s true of all men. We talk a lot about gender generalities (genderalities? No that’s dumb.). Ok, maybe we need more than that as an answer.Īs always, I’ll begin with the disclaimer that not all men are the same. I had my husband Austin answer this question for women who want to know, “Do men enjoy using mirrors during sex?”.
Follow my “ How to Feel Beautiful” series for weekly challenges to help you with this. Learn to see yourself as the beautiful and sexy person you are.Before you dare to bare in front of the mirror, I have a few suggestions for you. If you have low self-esteem and don’t like the way you look, this can be a scary thing. I realize that getting in front of the mirror while being intimate with one another is probably not the top priority for everyone. Getting Comfortable Naked in Front of the Mirror Also, you can go to the bathroom or another room that has mirrors you can use. Also, if you don’t have the ability to hang a mirror, you can use a hand-held mirror for oral sex to see what’s going on. I wrote a post on tips for using mirrors in your bedroom and talked about where you can put them in your room. I know that for myself if I find my mind wandering to the grocery list, I can just recall things I’ve seen in the mirror. Having these images stored in your mind gives you something to visualize. Like I said earlier, women have a hard time keeping their minds focused during sex. Since women have a hard time staying mentally focused during lovemaking, seeing what is going on can really help. During intercourse or other acts of foreplay, mirrors can help a woman feel more stimulated with sexual desire. Not only do husbands benefit from seeing their reflection, but so do women. Men are very visual and enjoy seeing their wives naked. Here are some of the top reasons you should use mirrors. Seeing what is going on has many benefits for you and your spouse. Why You Should Use Mirrors in The BedroomĪside from being an eye-opening experience about what it really looks like to be intimate with one another, getting in front of the mirror is great for your sex life. Getting in front of the mirror with one another can be an eye-opening experience. These images and actions can crowd our minds when we visualize sexual intimacy with our spouses. While I fast forward through inappropriate scenes as quickly as possible, enough flashes before the screen for me to know it is all wrong.
Would you believe that people being intimate in marriage looks nothing like it does on television? What a shocker, right? There is little to nothing about movie sex that is true to life. Not to say that you should do this every time, but make it a regular activity. I think it’s important to incorporate this as part of your sexual repertoire. In this YouTube video, I talk about the benefits of using mirrors during sex. Even if you don’t use them all the time, it is good to switch things up a bit to increase sexual intimacy in your marriage. Mirrors can be a great way to enhance your sex life.
There are plenty of things you can do in the bedroom for one another to make things exciting.